Okonkwo Samuel
Countries who criminalised polygamy are now returning back to reality. There is never going to be enough husbands to go round our teeming women of age. If it were so, there won’t be singles seminars in virtually all pentecostal mega churches. Shiloh and Holy ghost crusades won’t be thronged my many women seeking husbands. Husbands are in high demand but few in supply.
The many single mothers without husbands needs a fatherly figure for their children, sadly some have three children by three fathers, this is majorly particular to a certain tribe in the South.
Only a polygamist will be understating enough to take her and her excess baggages in and give her an opportunity to be a dignified wife and give her children a whole acceptability.
The many exalted prostitutes on our road sides and brothels and the ones selling products on social media by day and “kpekus” at nights are better off married as dignified wives and raising children into family units while doing legit business of dignity other than trading their bodies and spreading STDs and STIs all about.
It is on record that the most hardened criminals in our prisons and beyond are products of single mothers who couldn’t instill enough discipline onto their children. Children who break free into certain lifestyles that they copied from wrong associations. Imagine a single mother bringing her man into her house to spend several nights when she has young daughters who hear the noises from midnight “kabashing”. What is she teaching the daughters and sons?
The ones pimping their daughters to men old enough to be their grandfathers for money and material benefits are usually single mothers who failed in marriages or unfortunately became widows by circumstances. Alot where were never married at all but took-in either out of love or out of their wreckless sexual escapades with different men and didn’t know who exactly to pin it on. Others were disgraced out by DNA results.
The ones who have accepted Polygamy are not half humans. They are not with low self esteem, they are even more beautiful and daring. Infact, it is on record that many sister wives are women of career and have made their bones in businesses and their chosen endeavours.
Stop being a married man side chick, how long is he going to hide those children you have with him from his family. Demand a union where marriage is involved.
